Forgiving our parents

We’ve all heard stories from those who say their parents messed up their lives. While some stories are horrific, others are typical – albeit distressing – reflections of dysfunctional families. I have no doubt my children love me. Yet I cringe at what they might share regarding the times I behaved in less-than-loving ways. Nevertheless, I can honestly say to each one of them, “I have always loved you. Imperfectly, yes. But always.” I have no doubt my mom and dad would say the same thing if they were still alive. Wouldn’t you to your children? Being a good parent, especially a single one, is one of the most challenging roles there is. As much as we wished we’d been perfect pa